Love spells have been an area of expertise of mine for some time. In fact, one of the first spells I ever cast was a love spell. I was young, immature and while the spell did work, it didn't bring me that "perfect mate" that I thought it would. I studied, practiced and reflected and over the course of the last 15 years have perfected the art of love spells.
I've seen many people work magic to get love into their lives, and those spells work - for a limited time. All too often, the love attained through magical work is only fleeting, or rather, the relationship breaks apart in just a few months. I've observed these patterns in my clients, friends and in my own life, and from this developed what I've found to be the best love spell out there - one that really produces long-lasting results.
Dr. E.'s Three-Part Love Spell™
I like to say that magic opens doors - making it easier to attain what you desire - but ultimately you need to walk through those doors or you're not going to get what you want. When it comes to love spells, you have to do a lot of personal work, getting past insecurities, working through issues of loveability, and releasing pains from past break-ups to really craft that perfect relationship. Therefore, this type of personal reflection is woven into part one of the three-part spell.
Part two is a love spell that you cast on YOURSELF! That's right, you need to love yourself completely and unconditionally before you can ever love another in the same manner. The fountain of love has to be kept full, or you'll run dry trying to satisfy the thirst of another. Love yourself, and you'll finally be able to love a partner as he or she deserves.
Part three is the final step - where you craft a talisman to draw your perfect mate into your life, now that you've done all of the work to prepare yourself mentally, physically, emotionally, etc.
Part 1 - Love Uncrossing Baths
First, we need to uncross your love life - and that means unraveling the ball of emotional issues you have around love. Start by taking a red/black double action candle, cutting off the tip and carving a new one on the bottom. Carve into the candle using a nail or a sharp pointy tool "I release pain and heal my heart". Anoint it with Love Uncrossing Oil wiping the oil away from yourself as you hold the candle. Pray for your pains from past relationships to be washed away, and for your heart to be opened to new, genuine, unconditional love. Burn this candle every time you do your baths.
Using Dr. E. Product's Love Uncrossing Herb Bath, you'll draw a nice warm magical bath to sort through your pains from past break-ups, your emotional issues and your insecurities. Slip into the bath and soak in it. While you are soaking, meditate or reflect upon your thoughts around love and relationships. If you feel any pain or insecurities come up, scoop up some of the bath and pour it over your head and feel the bath water wash away the pain - see the pain like ink being drained out of your body and dissipating into the water. At the same time visualize the herbs in the bath like a cloud of pink energy saturating your body and replacing that pain with love, peace and security. Repeat this bath 13 times starting at the full moon and ending at the new moon. It's also a good idea to start a journal to sort through your feelings and release the pains of past relationships. Forgiveness of others and of YOURSELF goes a long way here. 13 herb baths are the minimum, you can do more until you have found yourself at peace with your past, and able to start loving yourself.
If your candle runs out while you are doing the baths, it's okay to start another one. You can repeat this process for as long as you need until you are ready for step 2.
Step 2 - Me First!
In order to really love another person, you have to love yourself first. In fact, the best relationships happen when each person in that relationship takes ownership of his or her own emotional reactions and makes sure his or her own needs are being met, instead of trying to dump all of those expectations onto their partner. Therefore, the time has come for you to fall in love with yourself first!
This spell uses more candle work, some condition oils, as well as your personal sexual fluids (the most powerful substances your body has). Obtain a pink glass-encased candle (7 day candle), as well as a photograph of yourself. Also get the scissors and some glue (I like to use tacky glue), a long pointy tool like a screwdriver or a skewer, one red rose, and a bottle of Dr. E. Products' True Love Oil to dress the candle.
On a Friday, gather the above items and cut out your photo from the background - all we want is your head and body. (If you use a headshot, make sure that your upper chest is visible - to the heart level). Put a little glue on the back of the picture and stick it to the pink candle - essentially making a "novena" candle of your own self. Using the pointy implement, poke three holes in the wax from the top down into the wax as deeply as you can go - one of these holes should be up against the glass and go through the top of your portrait's head, through the throat, down to the heart, etc. Please be careful not to shatter the glass.
Now, put a drop of the True Love oil into each of the three holes - thus getting the effect of the oil into your "head, mouth, throat and heart" so it directly affects you. Take the petals off of the red rose and sprinkle them in a heart shape around the candle (I like to sprinkle them clockwise around the candle).
To empower the working, you are now going to pleasure yourself. Yes, that's right - masturbate. The objective here is to give your body the most pleasureable thing you can as a way of working up energy for the spell, and as a symbol for the love you have for yourself. Make love to yourself, and when you climax, push all of the energy of your orgasm into the candle and say "I LOVE YOU!" to yourself. Capture a bit of your sexual fluids and put a few drops into the top of the candle as well. Finally light the candle and let it burn. Take a moment to reflect on the spell, the love you have for yourself and the new relationship you'll start forming with yourself.
Step 3 - True Love Mojo Bag
The final step of this spell is something you don't do until you reach a particular emotional state. That state is one where you are perfectly content, happy to be by yourself and aren't desperately wanting a relationship any longer. See, the trick with love spells is that they are colored by the emotional energy you put into them. If desperation and loneliness are your motivations for spell work, then your results will be a relationship where you constantly find yourself being isolated by your partner, or feeling desperate for their presence in every moment of your waking life. I might be wrong here, but I don't think that's a very healthy relationship. Once you are at a place where you could have a relationship as an enhancement to your life (not as a solution to your life), then you are ready to go on to this part of the spell.
Step three is a Triple Strength True Love Mojo Bag custom made with large mineral, root and other magical curios to draw your True Love into your life. I create Triple Strength Love Mojos in a very special way (sorry, that's my secret), and then deliver it to you. The True Love Mojo acts as a powerful ally to attract your perfect mate, and keep them in your life. You feel the True Love Mojo with True Love Oil on a weekly basis, and carry it on you whenever you're going out to find that special someone, or even on a daily basis. You never know when you'll meet "The One"!
Love spells usually don't produce lasting results because most folks don't do the footwork necessary to have life-skills in place to really cope with a relationship. This three-part spell helps you build those skills, and foster the positive sense of being necessary to really make it work. A little hoodoo, and a little self-reflection goes a long way toward bringing you that True Love you've always dreamed of, and making him or her stick around! Best of luck - AND LOVE - to you all!